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October 27, 2010 5:55 pm at 5:55 pm
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OK, people, back off.. I was just being funny. But now that I see Hashemsprincess has a real issue, I’ll answer seriously.
Princess – It may not be true, but if that’s the perception,you should try to address that. Not defend yourself, just clarify the stiuation.
My wife had a “falling out” (her words) with a friend, and she says she feels that way because phone calls went unreturned.
So, rather than let things fester, I did the sensible thing; I asked the friends husband if he wants to eat out. Once at the table, the 2 Mrs. were soon back on good terms. Not that there was a problem.. only a PERCIEVED problem.
If its a friend, call and ask to clarify.