Halocho or not, take it from a male… the very question raises suspicions. End of story.
And Sac,, I gotta admit, you make the CR interesting!
Still, I can’t seem to reconcile the Sac who “lives on the edge” with the Sac that wrote such a nice thing about her father in another thread.
And I’m still waiting for your answer to the “heimish-chassidish-modernish-flexidish” question.
Or are you too complex to be limited to either of these tags?