bp totty, it’s very different. Gerr is VERy makpid and have MANY chumros when it comes to halachos between the married couple.
In general, all of the chassideshe rebbes stressed tznius. Toldos Aaron/Toldos Avrohom Yiztchok is very makpid with tznius. I don’t think they are as makpid as gerr with halachos between husband and wife.