Reply To: gerrer chasidim rules dring marriage?

Absolutely. If the “other” gedolim don’t care about what choson/kallah do before marriage, how much more likely are they to say anything goes and to be meikal after marriage. And since these normally “machmir” gedolim feel kind of guilty since the vast majority of chasidim are not meikal in inyonei kedusha, they frown on the irrelevant chumras of Ger, chumras that are brought out by many rishonim and achronim poskim. And where a posek seems to be meikal, he then says that machmirim tovoh aleihem brocho. Very easy to make fun of essential chumros of kedusha. You don’t want to be kodosh, no problem. But why make fun of those who do? And make up myths and lies.