People were talking about the after marriage.
Really, now, does it matter?
What a Gerrer couple (or any other couple, for that matter) do behind closed doors is really no one’s business but their own. If they choose to follow their Rebbe’s dictates regarding how and when and so forth, so what? Why is that such a big deal to everyone else?
Unless you yourself (or your close relative) is contemplating marrying a Gerrer chassid AND is intent on keeping those rules, then I don’t see how this is a problem for anyone else.
The Wolf