arc: Don’t worry, I didn’t get that impression of Monsey at all from your comments. aries2756 tends to get rather worked up when it gets to chinuch issues (not that that’s necessarily a bad thing), so don’t be too worried about it.
aries2756:
“If the community in Monsey can sit idly by while children are labeled and not work with them and help them then….EDITED”
Not every case is so black and white. If you were in charge of a school, and a parent came crying to you to let her daughter in, even though she would definitely be a bad influence on the other girls, what would you do? Sacrifice one, or make everybody suffer? I don’t think there’s any easy answers here.