WIY, since you are not married yet and you are not a parent yet, you are not INFORMED enough to have such an opinion!!!
Schools need to take more responsibility and get equipped to handle ALL types of students and train mechanchim to catch kids before they get to the point of no return, especially when there are issues in the home. I have worked with MANY at-risk kids and have never met a “bad” kid yet. I have met many kids with “bad” problems and issues, but that’s it. As a friend of mine used to say “G-d don’t make no junk!”
So let’s get that straight from the start and understand that Home and School is a partnership and each has a combined responsibility when it comes to children. When YOU will be the parent, maybe then YOU will understand that a little better. Mechanchem has as much of a responsibility in raising a child as do the parents. They have as much influence if not more than do parents, and they spend more time with the children and set more rules. They charge parents an arm and a leg for the privilege of taking their child to begin with and parents barely have the time these days to spend any quality time with their own children as they scramble to pay the bills.
And understand this, it was the parents who set up this system, it was the schools who did it!