I can’t imagine any father who beheld his son at his bris, who ever invested an ounce of effort into building his daughter’s self esteem, who worried one sleepless night over his children could ever be so cavalier about… exposing his kids to OTD friends.
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You’re mixing issues. Who my children socialize with is not the same as who should not be kicked out of a school. Moreover, I’m getting a sense that the “velt” is very quick to label someone as OTD, when in fact the child just not fill every nook and crany of the “mold.”