I think were all much much safer
I think we’d be much safer if the women didn’t attend the wedding at all. Why do women need to be there? The kallah can send a shliach to the hall to accept her kiddushin. The nesuin will happen when she goes home to her chassan at the end of the day.
So, you’ll just have the men in one hall and the women across town in the other hall, and then no one has to see anyone of the opposite gender — including the chosson and kallah. That’s the safest method.
The Wolf
(Of course, I wouldn’t want a wedding like that, but if safety [vis-a-vis boys and girls comingling] is the main criteria, then perhaps we should adopt this model.)