Who said anything about “you must stay away from your own daughter”? That is “interpreting it [the comment] extremely”. The point was about a man dancing with a daughter or sister in middle of a sea of (dressed to kill!) women.
My apologies then — I clearly misinterpreted what you said. You were talking about a man and his daughter and I did not realize that you were focusing on the “in the midst…” portion. I thought you were focusing on the man and his daughter.
The Wolf