whatrutalkingabt, No I think you are being naive as are the rest of you always looking for something to kvetch about and point your fingers at. Dancing with your daughter at her wedding is a beautiful thing and for brothers as well. And anyone looking for something licentious about it is just a big yenta always looking for the bad in things instead of the good. Women do not surround the father and daughter, they open up the circle and they don’t stay long it is only for a few minutes usually very close to the mechitza. Everyone has their own minhag and in many cases it is not planned out just spontaneous. And in many cases the choson comes over to dance with his grandmother and mother. That is also a beautiful thing but YOU will all find something wrong with it. Go ahead, in my book and in many others in is a great honor to the grandmother and the mother.
Go pull out your seforim and look it up. It doesn’t hold a candle to the worst offenses like child molestation and abuse. So until you frumer than frum name names and lock them up those Rebbeshe culprits who will stand on top of a mountain and yell gevalt that a father dances with a daughter at her wedding stop picking on the innocent and beautiful family minhagim.