Why don’t we just clear this up the way those who consider themselves FRUMEST of the FRUM on this thread would like it to be known. THOSE who consider themselves FRUMER than others would never consider allowing Fathers and brothers to dance with the Kallah, c”v, that doesn’t happen unless of course it is a mitzvah tanz and the kallah goes to the men’s side and dances (with a gartel) with a dozen or two or three other strange men as well. At that time, there are dozens of well dressed (dressed to kill women and girls sitting on the men’s side as well) Those who THEY consider their MO brethren and who THEY consider a few madreigah’s beneath them will not consider anything wrong with it and might even consider same gender marriages because we are all menuvals and don’t understand or follow Torah. WE also don’t understand that the joy of a father and brother their only reason for going to the girl’s side is to fill their devious minds and hearts with views of gorgeous and dressed to kill women and girls and of course their minds and hearts are not to be mesameach THEIR kallah. It would never occur to these Frumer than Frum that one can also see these beautiful in the hallway or in the front lobby. But no the brothers have to rush over to the Kallah’s side to get an eyefull.
YOU bring me such pain with all this garbage and holier than thou attitude I can only imagine the pain Hashem has from this. You lose track of how far you let this go and how nasty you get, we all get. Yes I get in it to because I keep saying stop judging what others are doing, they have their own Rav they can ask and that can guide them. Stop looking to point fingers at others, where does it get us? We start the mud slinging at each other and it becomes another foolish and disgusting blog. This is not a halachik blog. It is a chat room, a coffee room for people to help each other not hurt each other, but it changed and it is not a very nice place to be anymore.
So now all you holier than thou who think YOU control this room will tell ME to leave. Well I can tell you the same. And I leave it to the moderators to decide how to get the CR room back to the way it is supposed to be, before all the mud slinging began.