Having a son in the parsha, who is learning and going to college, who plans to go to work after marriage, I know what this is like. He was rejected for a shiduch recently because he was not planning on learning full-time after marriage. He is very serious about his plans as well as busy with chesed work.
So, instead of talking about this, let’s try to start something new – shidduchim for only those boys who want to work/koveah itim and those girls who want such a boy for a husband.
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