Reply To: Shidduchim, What do boys look for in a girl?

I think a pretty important link in this is some girls kow how to make a guy feel secure with her, and some dont. Its a magnetism. Some girls have great Midos and will make the best wives and mothers, probably more so than some who know how to put that magnetism on, but many girls with top Midos just dont know how to communicate caring in a way that a boy is looking for. Boys only see what they can see.