noitallmr: LOL!
Ofcourse:
“I think a pretty important link in this is some girls kow how to make a guy feel secure with her, and some dont. Its a magnetism. Some girls have great Midos and will make the best wives and mothers, probably more so than some who know how to put that magnetism on…”
You’re sure it’s not just looks?
WellInformedYid:
“Boys look for girls who are chilled. Plain and simple. Guys cant stand whiners, complainers, MASHGIACH TYPES, critics, overly emotional (cries over everything).”
Agreed. Also, from talking to guys currently “in the parsha”, I think one of the primary ways that guys rate their dates is according to how much “fun” they had. If the girl is easygoing, funny, etc. she’ll rank higher than one who’s too quite and serious. I’m not entirely convinced this system works, as it has little bearing on what type of mother a girl will be (which in my opinion should be the primary gauge), but it is what it is.