Without reading the entire thread. There is no such thing as an overeducated woman. If a woman is respectful to her husband regardless of his intellect, then we’re fine. If she abuses her intellect, then that’s another story.
Honestly, a smart Yeshiva Man is better off with an educated woman, not that that’s the only or main part of the relationship, but it surely helps, even when, and maybe better yet when her expertise is in another field as his is, e.g., a lawyer – Talmid Chacham.
Good healthy intelligent discussion!