lawgirl
Theres nothing wrong with being smart. Either way, in my experience most smart girls prefer smart guys anyways. I dont know you but you should think about if you really want to be married to a guy who is significantly less educated and less brainy than you are.
Theres one thing to be uneducated, but a guy can make up for that with sharp wits and a fast intellect. However if he has neither I think most smart girls will just find that the chemistry is off and that he lacks “substance.”
Intelligent people tend to enjoy intelligent conversation and therefore should be paired up with intelligent people. Most smart guys wont be intimidated if they are less educated but are still plenty worldly and have a good head.
Its the feeble minded guys that tend to be scared off by educated brainy girls.
Thats my opinion anyways. Maybe only date smarter guys or guys who have degrees or whatever it is…smart people have a reputation and the Shadchan will be able to find you smart guys to date. Either way your whole theory with the triangle and all that makes fun reading but isnt based in Torah reality.
We Jews have Emunah and we believe that Hashem has a zivug prepared for us and when the time is right the 2 of you will meet and and connect. It can even be someone you once dated but it didnt work out because the time wasnt right. It has nothing to do with male female ratios and all that other garbage. No offense but if you have Emunah you will understand that in an extremely theoretical case where there is only one single guy left in the world every other single girl can date him but if he is meant for you, he wont click with the others and you will get him and no other girl will.