At the end of the day everyone gets what they deserve.
when these l’h speakers get rejected for jobs,shiduchim etc..
let them think back if there was anyone they wronged in the past..
Yes,someone once wronged me very seriously. Some time later, his son was killed. I was so happy, I made a kiddush in shul.
By which I mean: Are you suggesting that she should take solace in the fact that the people oppressing her will have tzaros because of it?