Reply To: How important in loyalty when it comes to a shidduch?

There is no dilemma here. If Girl #1 is still available and WILLING to try again, and he has broken up with the second girl, then he should go for it. If, however, it is as you first described it, then he has NOT broken it off with the other girl yet. THAT is the dilemma – how to handle the breakup in such a way as to minimize the pain SHE will feel. But he has to be honest and do it. If he already broke it off, I don’t see a kasha of any kind here.