The point is again to deal with every shidduch as if it is the only one. Whoever told this guy that his dream shidduch was available was very cruel playing with his emotions and breaking up his current shidduch. There is no guarantee that choice number one will work out for him and he could be throwing away his bashert. That person who is messing with his life, his future and possibly his success has a huge achrius on his/her hands. S/he is messing with three families here and that is a lot of achrius to take on.
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