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It was my understanding that WIY is already working…
Either way, speaking for myself, I have no hard or fast rule with a lot of things TV/no TV learning for a few years/not learning for a few years etc etc which results in me dating across the spectrum. I know WHAT I want, I feel that when I see it I’ll know. I am extremely decisive and I (like to) believe a good judge of character.
At this point I just know (personality wise) what works for me and what doesnt.