Of course:
As for your point that we need more shadchanim.
MOST Certainly.
many many (perhaps even most) young couples certainly try and dabble when they first get married. Yet within 6 months, 99.5% quit the “proffesion”.
Ever wonder WHY?
Here’s the secret. NO one likes being a failure and/or being treated like one.
The most prolific shadchanim set up 300 plus different dates (lets say 350) a year and max 25 get engaged.
that’s 325 failures…. Right???
that’s how our community treats a shidduch that falls apart after 2/3/4 dates.
as long as that’s the situation, rest assured you won’t have people running to devote the hundreds of hours it takes to pursue the thankless, abusive “chesed” of redding shidducim.
Emotionally healthy sane people distance themselves from feelings of failure, and the typical shadchan is treated that way day in day out.
The day that changes, is the day you will fulfill your dream of having enough shadchanim out there that each and every girl will have whom to turn to.
Go For It!