dunno….EXACTLY….listen, i dont care if u guys judge me on my poor dating skills…i am used to casual dating, so this shidduch stuff is kinda awkward for me, but in any case. The point is, the guy was not telling me how he felt, was i supposed to guess??? the shadchan had no idea, she was convinced we were so perfect for each other (she was also counting her shadchanus gelt$$$ obviously).
To answer WIY, u shouldnt go around making assumptions about people you dont know…as i stated quite clearly i left out a lot of details and therefore how could u possibly judge without knowing the entire story….besides you know what they say about people who assume….
as for everyone else, when u see a red flag, RUN!!! not showing emotions, thats kinda a red flag….