Hashkafa is the number one thing you should not compromise on. Moral values is number 2. If you truly in your heart want a “learning boy” then that should be another or if you really want your husband to support you, then don’t let anyone talk you into going out with a learning boy. Other than that their has to be a physical attraction and no personality clash. You can’t change a person from the inside out, but there are a lot of things you can do from the outside in.
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