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lkwdfellow
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The chassidish method works for two main reasons:

1) They start the boys at about the same age as the girls. So, they don’t have the litvish age gap problem of boys starting at 22-23 & girls starting at 18-19.

2) The parents do much more checking & before letting a shidduch even begin – are comfortable with the couple getting engaged.

The litvish system is set up differently & to change it would be difficult.