ronrsr – maturity gap is created by how we set up our system. A boy who knows that he needs to get married at 18-19 (chassidish-style) will mature at that age. If he knows he doesn’t have to get married till 22-23 – he’ll wait till then to mature…
TheChevra – that’s my point. If they have a system that’s working – it pays to see why it’s working, while our system isn’t…