smartcookie:
So you disagree with “the chevra” who says that the Chassidish solution can apply to non-chassidim?
P.S. It is not crazy, it has to do with expectations and exposure.
In the Alter Heim, you came home from work (as a boy),& your father told you that you were engaged, and you asked to who?
And it worked, and they were happy (see: “do you love me”, Fiddler on the Roof).