Reply To: Finding girls Shiduchim should be attended to as seriously as Kiruv

Too many girls want a guy who learns 3 hours a day, works 10 hours a day, does chesed 2 hours a day and only engages in strictly Bne’ Brak entertainment (hint none at all), Well girls these guys DONT exist, and I am not getting into finances or looks which makes things EVEN MORE complicated. OTD with guys happens when they are 18 then they go to Israel get bored, learn and go to become “learners” get married get bored of frumkeit need I go on, OTD+ BT are often a difficult group to set up, who knows what else they’ ll do people like stability.