GAW: why would a kehilla offering to compnesate for date #2/#4 only offer it for the wealthy girls? i fail to understand. I think you still don’t understand the concept that has been tried tested and in the process of being expanded.
In fact it can potentially put the girls with less going for them in a better position as communities could/wil reach out to the appropriate people and egender more attention for those girls who all things being equal would have tended to get less attention.