Reply To: This week's Yated Shidduch Forum…

My question is- when did making shidduchim become a BUSINESS??? As far as I know it is a Chesed and a Mitzva!! Not only did not one date come from this but this shadchan did not even contact me about the goings on… a nice short email that she did not forget about me would’ve been nice…. This whole situation makes me feel like another statistic, not an actual person….

And since when does the shadchan who does make an actual shidduch get to request how much we give? What if someone can’t afford $10000??