APY
TMB
HSS
and everyone else…
The concept of paying for achiveable results should (and has already being done) on a community level.
Thus there is no concern of the individuals saying no to a further date based on that concern.
the effective way to do it is
on behalf of girls
21-24 $100/$350
25+ $250/$550
(obviously these specifics could be adjusted. In yeshvish circles it would be date #2/date #4 in communities where date number 8 is just getting to know someone then it would be adjusted. I have simply presented a framework that has been implemented effectively)
This will result in a tremndous amout of attention showered on theres girls. Most likely the poeple to go the extra mile will actually NOT be the extremely busy shadchanim but rather the fellow alumni, shul goers, friends acquantancies that may have dabbled in shidduchim only to quit out of frustration etc….
This will empower a army of capable poeple to look out for their own. People who are treated like success will feel succesful and succes of course breeds success.
I would encourge, shuls, classmates, communities to do it. there is no tax (tzippy), it is simply a effective (and inexpensive) way of generating alot of quality dates for their girls. Any group that does it will benefit. Simple as that.