I am new to this on the parental end but would think talking to friends will give a clearer picture at least personality wise.
The questions I want answered but probably won’t ask are, if he sees a woman with shopping bags,double stroller and small children trying to get on a bus will he offer to help ?
Can he change a diaper? a tire ? a light bulb?
Does he dress up on Purim and if so as ?
Just wondering to the boys need to have a resume too?