I was unambiguous about my uncle the first time.
So he wouldn’t eat by his parents? Or his kids? Or his Rav (whom he would otherwise ask kashrus shailos of)?
He doesn’t eat by ANYONE’s simcha (even his own, unless his wife cooks everything)?
If so, then he’s not, IMHO, someone to be emulated. He may have other wonderful traits, but in this matter, he is an example of someone who has gone far too far in the other direction.
The Wolf