bjjkid, that in and of itself is broadening your views!
Just because you limit what you are going to do, doesn’t make you “narrow.” Its important to learn what others do and apply it to your life as applicable.
If what I posted is not applicable, you just learnt what others do.
Now think of me on your next date and say “What would SJS do” and do the opposite LOL. Now you know you are actually going to think of me haha!