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Memo said: what info would ppl tolerate that would be best said later in a serious relationship-b4 they get engaged?
Anything that you TRULY feel is not going to make a difference in a marriage. I know someone (happily married) that said, “If I would’ve known he didn’t have a high school diploma I never would have gone out with him.
As I said before, I’m sure most people out there could say, “If I would’ve known” they may have never even given the other a fair shot.
Aries, I’d have to say witholding info is pretty close to lying if you think it’s something that the person would want to know. Unless you agree with Bill Clinton.
Memo, why would anyone in their right mind answer even a direct question truthfully before you’ve even met them or have just met, knowing that it will result in a definite “TAKE A HIKE”. Most people aren’t lying, they’re just trying to get their foot in the door.