memo; For argument’s sake,
lets say that there is a girl that is not heavy, but not skinny,
Let us say that girl could’ve been you. Are you telling me you would say “I’m not slim” on your resume?
If so, I tip my hat (a borsalino) to you.
However, that is a ridiculous practice. What if a guy is looking for a slim-ish girl. If you wrote that on paper, he would never give you the time of day. What if not knowing specifics he met you, liked your personality & didn’t notice the fullishness.
You’d be happily married, as opposed to your Shitoh which would
leave the full-ish person at home almost dateless.
Most Shadchanim tweak, or don’t give a B’rochel Bitcho Haktanah
description, for they know, not everyone has the same taste, likes or dislikes. As beauty really is in the eye of the beholder, it lets the dater decide for themselves what is
pretty to them, or who is considered smart to them.
Personality, brilliant as it can be, does not shine through the resume, and has to be experienced in person.