You do seem to be getting the point and none of this is not “yashrusdik”. You’re right regarding serious issues, however it’s so tough out there these days that you wonder what really are the issues? You want a nice person that will treat you well and have the same values as you do (give or take). Marriage has been and always will be about compromising.
I dated a girl once who straight out asked me (on the 2nd or 3rd date) “When you watch a video do you fast forward the bad parts?” Of course my answer was, “No, I rewind it and watch it again”
Do you really think that question deserved a serious answer?