for the record, i married a smoker andd once i became pregnant he did not smoke in the house or in the car. a few years later he quit completly. its been over 20 yrs since he quit.
i’m happy i didn’t choose my husband based on smoking habits.
and for the record x 2, obesity leads to so many diseases taht change a persons quality of life just as you say smoking does.
neither is good but i don’t see anyone saying ”would you break off a shidduch coz the guy/gal is overweight.
hmmmmmmm