pumper said; “besides male, alive and Jewish is considered picky and told to be realistic. Hello?????”
Is it that bad? I hope your exaggerating.
If not I have to have more kavanah when I daven.
the op however is still right in their sentiment.
You cant go down on all boys cuz ur frustrated.
It is not the collective fault of the all single and newly married boys that there is problem.
many guys I know married normal girls, not the prettiest,
and definitely not the richest. just normal girls that
they’re happy with.
I’m probably gonna get flack for this but I think it started
with money, and the elite.
[Edited myself] I hope you can fill in the blanks
But the worst thing is bending to the style, even though you do not fit that type, or cannot afford that school or hall.
In the heim there was no such thing as people living like
Ashirim if they werent rich, this in my humble opinion
started a chain of events that lead to many problem in this generation.
People started bowing to imitate others they cant compete with
in anyway. No problem lets use the credit cards.
Let’s lend from a Gemach.
You have to live within your means and do whats right and trust HB”H to take care of you. We don’t have to show off to anybody.
Goyim or Yidden. I feel if we only started living like
Hatzneh.. focusing on who really runs the show,
HB”H would take of all our needs.
We CANNOT be a “Monkey See Monkey Do” kind of nation.
Feel free to totally disagree with me, prove me wrong,
educate me.