I did shadchanus for many years and found that a guy who had a lot going for him on paper was more likely to become arrogant with a “mageeya lee” attitude,whereas a girl with a lot going for her was still pretty focused on all the deeply important qualities in a guy.The guys who were either in their high 30s or had appearance issues were humble and open to anything that made sense.I guess the trick is to maintain that humility even while enjoying good looks,and other gifts from Hashem.
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