popa—no,they had just gotten married!
aries–that is funny!why did he say that?
I.S.–“es past nisht” is meant to encourage someone not to act on a lower level than the (high)level h/she is on.It’s supposed to be the least abrasive way to give a person mussar.
BUT YOU ARE SO RIGHT!
USING IT TO DESCRIBE A THIRD PARTY’S ACTIONS IS WRONG AND SERVES NO PURPOSE BESIDES LOSHON HORA.
EDITED POST
Please do not yell in the CR.