Reply To: Dating & Giving In

BPT

“Sorry to hear things did not work out”

Really, I’m not. On to bigger and better.

I love that I have my own dating cheerleader though… 😀

Ofcourse

“Now what if you were not that nuts over the guy or girl in the first place, and you have a child who has severe physical handicaps, husband is out of work for 2 years with no end in sight, one spouse develops severe physical or mental issues, widening Hashkafic differences, spiraling cost of living, flared temper/s, a woman who cant tell the difference between clean and dirty with original ideas on what tasty foods are, and a mother in law who wants to blame everything on the other side, or maybe two such mothers in law, imagine that or worse”

Really?!

Because being overly paranoid is definitely the way to go.

Cutiepie (and whoever else is nervous about the unknown)

Go in to everything with your eyes and ears wide open (not overly paranoid like a certain poster will have you believe) but believe in the GOOD of humanity. People are good, life is good, marriage is good! Believe it and want it!

Dating is a process but you learn along the way to be more perceptive, trust your gut, if something feels wrong it probably is. Fall in love with your heart AND your head.

If you REALLY do have a commitment phobia, you should speak to a professional.