Reply To: Dating & Giving In

(to whoever is interested, so I can clarify)

What was happening in this particular situation (not nogeia anymore) was that he was asking me to do what he wanted, in regards to his dreams. He had a whole plan of how he wanted to live his life that wasnt exactly (understatement) how I envisioned mine. But, I’m flexible and open to change so we discussed it. Somehow my opinions and my feelings my likes and concerns werent a factor, for the first time in my life I really understood what “my way or the highway” meant, and we WERENT EVEN IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP!

Bottom line you have to be aware of everything on a date. Super charming guy can also turn out to be very controlling. Rarely do people become monsters over night.