Sac: can you believe i actually agree with everything you wrote…
Bjjkid: A few honest questions
if the boys is fantastic boy but became frum when he was 16 would you consider it?
is that a offensive suggestion?
Can I paraphrase what you wrote. Why should he suffer because he wasn’t born to frum parents.
Definately don’t “settle”, but if i was you I wouldn’t look at anything other than the boy and where he is now.
Is it fair-perhaps not- but it is the reality and the sooner you accept the better you will be.
If that’s your criteria you will find a quality boy imy”h.
And for the record i’m familar with the difficulties boys/girls in shidduchim from divorced families face.