shiduchim can be difficult and may seem unfair at times. if your parents have no money/ BT/ Out of towners/ If you are from overseas – the frum local community is hard to break into. everyone has to get a check on 1000s of items, who can pass?
Mothers can be difficult too, and not allow you to meet their son, while reality is you are 1000s better than their “holy son”.
So relax, and allow Hashem to guide you. someone prefect will come along. and I would say away from a divorced men. Mangy got divorced for a good reason… just my 2 cents.
Hatzlacha
Call friends. shadchanaim, rebetzins, teachers – get everyone to work for you!