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People HAVE TO DO CHESED!
It may be a newsflash to many. And just as if you are ‘not in the mood’ and grumbly and ‘yent’ from today to tomorrow, you still HAVE to put on tefillin and keep Shabbos etc..chesed is a Mitzva too!
NOW…there is room to say that if you already DO fufill this mitzva thru other acts of chesed that you don’t have to take on ADDITIONAL ones that are frustrating to you. However, the greatest room for growth is to do it when it is difficult. Baking cookies for your best friend who is sick is NOT a hard chesed to do. Inviting someone less fortunate who is a lil eccentric is.