no im not talking about people of means.
your perspective is not “different”.
it is clearly the perspective of someone who has never been in that position or involved with other in preparing a Bris.
and is just guessing based on a complete lack of knowledge.
i dont expect you to say, oh i didnt realize that is the intention of Baalei Brissim, interesting, thank you everyone for informing me.
no i certainly dont expect you to say anything like that at all.