Reply To: What does it take to break a friendship?

i was friends with a kid since we were in pre-school. our families bacame friends through us.we were the unseparable friends. when you heard my name, you heard hers and vs.

well sadly to say, we both got older, and in 8th grade my friend started doing the wrong things. she started hanging out with boys etc.it hurt me alot and i tried to ignore it, in middle of ninth grade, the entire school found out about her wrongdoings and i was forced to do something. i told her nicely how it hurt me and she was paranoid that i would break our friendship(because she knew my personality, how against these things i am)so she started ignoring me. and she started telling the whole grade whats going on, bec she thought i would tell everyone, so she wanted them to hear it from her first. before long it was a world war 3. the entire grade was taking sides, it was the talk of town, school, camp etc. obviously , everyone knew she was in the wrong, so before long she was alone, not a kid to talk to, she was so depressed. it hurt me so badly. a few month later, i got feedback that shes not hanging out anymore, so i called her to make up. we became back good friends. honestly, i knew she was still not innocent,(you can feel it in s/o’s personality) but i tried to push it away.

in 11th grade, word got back to my other close friend what shes doing. and my 3rd friend told me she doesnt wana have wat to do with her anymore. and that if im friends with frend #1, she doesnt wana have what to do with me either bec. its realy bad name.

i did some research as to wat friend #! was up to, and i found out that shes up to no good at all!!!!!!wayyyy worse ten i imagined. and i knew for sure it was true!!!!!!!!

and so i told her nicely, that thisis not the kinda life i want to lead, and as long as she has inappropriate friends, we cant be friends.

she, unwilling to change, said ok.

so thats where were standing right now.

do you think i acted appropriately?did i do the right thing?

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i would like honest opinins.

so please please post it and dont delete it!!