everyone should have a friend like you eclipse i’ve been a subject of lashon hara my whole life its been very hard to get past it sometimes, also what hurts is when people can seemingly say loshon hora about you in your presence but seem to think your too stupid to realize it.
I cant quite explain why i’ve been the target of peoples unhealthy interest but it has always been the case from school to work it has been a constant in my life, most recently it was my coworkers who spoke behind my back on a daily basis it was very hard but i have forgiven them and now our relationship has improved, they spoke ill of me but me letting go of my anger was what enabled our relationship to improve dramatically.