Reply To: Of your Shidduch related decisions what would you change if you could

Health, ” Don’t trust anyone and I’m not being paranoid; and this includes your own family members.”

If you cant trust relatives, who can you trust? Youth is wasted on the young. Sadly, too often in youth, you cant trust yourself. Personally, I had seriously bad judgement, because when you’re young, many think- what will my friends say about my Chasan/Kallah.

B”H at some point I took advice from my parents. They knew me better than I knew myself.